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Death, dying & grief
Death, dying & grief:
It can be sudden; it may be prolonged. The death process encompasses us all eventually. But whether it is you, or someone close to you, it can wear heavily. Here are steps to help you face the situation and get through the steps of grief that result from dying and death.
Grieving goes digital
Bryan "Scrip” Scripsick gets messages from friends all the time. He has lots of them, even though the 22-year-old Marine corporal from Pauls Valley, known as "Hollywood” to military buddies, was killed by a suicide bomber in Iraq in September 2007.
Left: Creating a scrapbook filled with memories of your mother is a good way to deal with grief.PHOTO PROVIDED
Mother’s Day can provide step in grief recovery
For more than 90 years, Mother’s Day has been a nationally recognized holiday, honoring these special women in our lives.
Life is Real: Writing the Final Chapters
Jim Chastain has survived cancer. He even wrote a book to prove it. But the disease came back. Doctors now tell him that he has "months" to live. He and his family are facing now what we all eventually will face. And he's sharing his journey with the world. Jim Chastain is dying. He is living to tell us about it.
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Banana coffins let you leave in sheaves
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DENVER — Casket makers catering to natural burials have offered biodegradable coffins made of such materials as recycled newspapers or cardboard. Ecoffins USA, based in Montrose, Colo., now...
Private funeral services planned Tuesday for Farrah Fawcett
Sun, Jun 28, 2009
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LOS ANGELES — A private funeral service will be held Tuesday for Farrah Fawcett at the Cathedral of Our lady of the Angels in downtown Los Angeles. Church officials say the service is set for...
Tragedies make focus in the office a tough call
Sun, Jun 28, 2009
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Friday was one day I wished I were kicked back on a beach somewhere, far from work. It was not a good day. Too many distractions of the emotional kind. Late the night before, an overseas phone call...
Grieving goes digital
Mon, May 25, 2009
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"What’s up bro? I got a cage fight May 2. U better show up n help me.” "Hey Bryan, just thinking of you today.” "I’m gettin this bad--- tat 4 u man ... Well,...
Under new law, death is first for Washington
Sat, May 23, 2009
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OLYMPIA, Wash. — It took a few weeks for the end of Linda Fleming’s life to rush painfully into focus. Diagnosed with late-stage pancreatic cancer, Fleming pictured her last days filled...
Tulsa chaplain’s project keeps patients, pets together
Sun, May 17, 2009
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TULSA — The inspiration came four years ago, when a hospice patient moved into a nursing home and had to leave behind his dearest friend, a portly black and tan dachshund named Stretch. The...
Mother’s Day can provide step in grief recovery
Thu, May 7, 2009
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For more than 90 years, Mother’s Day has been a nationally recognized holiday, honoring these special women in our lives. But for some people, Sunday will be the first Mother’s Day in...
Life is Real, Chapter One: Dying from cancer isn’t keeping Norman man from living
Sun, Jan 11, 2009
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The incisions sliced down and across his belly, perpendicular lines of pain the prescription analgesics could only begin to touch. He could feel the device inside him, a titanium pump occupying the...
Life is Real: Chapter 3 -- Living in the shadow of a death sentence
Sun, Apr 19, 2009
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NORMAN — Angry voices swarm up the stairs, as unexpected as gunshots, and Ford Chastain stops in mid-sentence.
His shaggy head turns quickly toward the staircase at his Norman home. He’s...
End-of-life decisions needed in Oklahoma
Mon, Apr 13, 2009
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A student recently asked me what I thought were Oklahomans’ top three concerns about their end-of-life care. I replied: →Most Oklahomans fear that their dying will be prolonged when...
Friends, family remember Edmond woman's life
Thu, Apr 9, 2009
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EDMOND — Erin Elizabeth Swezey, 20, spent her last night with her family shopping for her 14-month-old nephew’s Easter outfit. The Oklahoma State University student then had a late...
Caddo County military memorial gaining steam
Thu, Apr 2, 2009
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HINTON — With a doughboy soldier statue in storage and more than 80 deceased veterans missing from an aging memorial, a Caddo County committee has scheduled a meeting to discuss plans for a...
Seminar on dying to aid clergy, counselors and hospice workers
Thu, Apr 2, 2009
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To everything there is a season, a time to every purpose under heaven: a time to be born, a time to die. — Ecclesiastes 3:1-2 There is no greater gift you can give than helping a person to...
Who gets survivor benefits?
Sun, Mar 29, 2009
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Q: When a person who has worked and paid Social Security taxes dies, who is eligible for survivors benefits? A: Social Security survivors benefits can be paid to: • A widow or widower —...
Jari Askins’ mom dies at 85
Mon, Mar 23, 2009
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DUNCAN — Oklahoma Lt. Gov. Jari Askins and her family are mourning the loss of her mother, Jarita Askins, who died Sunday at her Duncan home after an extended illness. She was 85. Funeral...
Jim Chastain: Thanks for the prayers
Sun, Mar 22, 2009
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I may be one of the most prayed for people in history. Part of it has to do with how long I’ve been dealing with serious illness. My 8-year cancer anniversary is coming up. The prayers began...
Actor Ron Silver dies in NYC at age 62 of cancer
Mon, Mar 16, 2009
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Actor Ron Silver, who won a Tony Award as a take-no-prisoners Hollywood producer in David Mamet's "Speed-the-Plow" and did a political about-face from loyal Democrat to Republican activist after...
Young patient Tallie Anderson put spotlight on donor need
Tue, Mar 17, 2009
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SHAWNEE — Tallie Anderson strived to overcome a rare blood disorder, but in the end her body wasn’t as strong as her spirit. Tallie died Saturday surrounded by family and friends in a...
Team spirit can live on for die-hard supporters
Tue, Mar 17, 2009
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No one knows better how strong the Cowboy and Sooner spirit is than former students who attended the state’s two largest universities. And now those lifetime ties to the University of...
Actor Ron Silver Passes Away
Sun, Mar 15, 2009
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Actor Ron Silver, best known for his role as Professor Alan Dershowitz in 'Reversal of Fortune', has died at the age of 62 after a two-year battle with esophageal cancer.
Robin Bronk of the...
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Mon, 05/25/09 | 1 Comment
Grieving goes digital
Robert, Spring: I read with interest your website article regarding a tragic death in your community and the...
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Sat, 05/23/09 | 2 Comments
Under new law, death is first for Washington
Kevin, Oklahoma City: Could we perhaps talk a few(okay, a bunch) of our politicians into taking this law for a test drive?
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Sat, 05/23/09 | 2 Comments
Under new law, death is first for Washington
GS, Norman: We need this law in Oklahoma. It will solve the nursing home problem.
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Mon, 04/13/09 | 2 Comments
End-of-life decisions needed in Oklahoma
Linda, Oklahoma City: Five Wishes is indeed a comprehensive end-of-life document. HOWEVER, to comply with Oklahoma law...
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Mon, 04/13/09 | 2 Comments
End-of-life decisions needed in Oklahoma
MartzMimic, Oklahoma City: I might also recommend that people take a look at another advance directive known as "5 Wishes."...
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Thu, 03/19/09 | 17 Comments
Team spirit can live on for die-hard supporters
Chris, Jones: I'm with ya, Troy...cletus from dingleberry is a douche. He's a tired act.
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Tue, 03/17/09 | 17 Comments
Team spirit can live on for die-hard supporters
Troy, Oklahoma City: Cletus, they do have caskets for "brain dead" wannabe Okies though. As I have said many times...
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Tue, 03/17/09 | 17 Comments
Team spirit can live on for die-hard supporters
Mark, Tuttle: Fernando how do you think Dodgers are going to be this year, you think Manny is going to make a...
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Tue, 03/17/09 | 17 Comments
Team spirit can live on for die-hard supporters
Charles, Oklahoma city: These are for those unfortunate parents who get the bill for the first year's tuition!
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Tue, 03/17/09 | 17 Comments
Team spirit can live on for die-hard supporters
Fernando, Enid: Mark, I don't about other sports but baseball. I am 28 years old and I have ordered a Los Angeles...
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